docs: Some cleanup, some v2.4.0 additions (#139)

* docs: Some cleanup, some v2.4.0 additions

- Add `abort` directive docs
- Add a note in `handle` to cross-link to `handle_path`
- Add another example in `handle_errors` that shows how an `expression` matcher can be used to pair with it
- Add a cat emoji to handle_errors because 😸
- Add `file_server` to one of the `php_fastcgi` examples, it's rare that you'll ever use it without `file_server` so might as well include it there
- Add a TOC to `reverse_proxy` cause it's such a long page. Maybe we'll add one to other pages as well, but TBD
- Clarify the upstream address stuff a bit after some discussion in https://caddy.community/t/reverse-proxy-with-multiple-different-upstreams-with-paths/11512/12 and mention `rewrite` as the alternative
- Use the `{re.*.*}` shortcut in the Caddyfile matcher docs, links to the placeholder mapping to let people trace where that comes from

* docs: Revise the `handle` cross-linking, add another example

* docs: Bump minimum Go version to 1.15

* docs: A bunch more additions since v2.3.0

I went through the whole list of commits here: https://github.com/caddyserver/caddy/compare/v2.3.0...ec3ac84

* docs: Review feedback

* docs: Link to https://golang.org/doc/install, better instructions

src/docs/markdown/extending-caddy.md

@@ -9,7 +9,7 @@ Caddy is easy to extend because of its modular architecture. Most kinds of Caddy
 **Prerequisites:**
 - Basic understanding of [Caddy's architecture](/docs/architecture)
 - Go language proficiency
-- [`go`](https://golang.org/dl)
+- [`go`](https://golang.org/doc/install)
 - [`xcaddy`](https://github.com/caddyserver/xcaddy)